i’m avery and i’m so grateful you’re here!

On Wednesday, December 16, we received devastating news. Our sweet baby was diagnosed with Pre B-Cell Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia. Cancer. At 2 months. This is her healing journey.


Life at Home


Avery spent most of the first year of her life in the hospital. After bone marrow transplant, she was discharged and is currently home. She is cancer-free and doing her best to adjust to what life should be for a toddler. These Instagram posts represent those days at home.

As we near the end of Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, today’s post is about how Avery is doing now.

In fact, we had two big moments with her speech today.

Most of what Avery says is a repeat of her songs. Otherwise, it’s “sounds” we don’t quite understand yet.

The first big moment came today while at the zoo. 

We were going to take the girls on a little train 🚂 and were waiting for our turn.

I carried Avery over to watch the train and was talking to her about it.

Next thing I know, she put her little hand in a fist, and pulled her hand down so as to make a pumping motion. 💪🏻

Then, she said, “CHOO CHOO TRAIN!”

I’m not kidding when I say I walked back over to the others carrying Avery in my arms with happy tears in my eyes. 🥹

This is the first time she’s ever really used expressive language like this.

The second time would happen just this evening.

I was washing Avery’s hands in the sink and she clearly didn’t want to do it anymore. 

I told her I was done and began to dry her hands. 🤚🏼 

Y’all. She looked me straight in the eyes and said, “Sad.”

Mom and I were both in complete shock! 😮 

Avery then looked at me again and said, “I sad. Sad. Sad.” Then laid her head down on my shoulder.

In addition to absolutely breaking my heart for making her sad, 💔 I was so amazed at how well she’s doing with her speech!

Survivorship itself is a journey. We have highs and lows, but when we hit those highs?! THEY ARE SO GOOD! 🙌🏼

We can’t wait to update y’all with even more words, phrases, and developments as we continue to move forward.

So very proud of our sweet girl! 🫶🏼

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📸 January 2024 📸 

As a family, we celebrating survivorship every single day!

Avery fought for nearly 2 years to give herself a lifetime of memories, and we cherish each milestone, no matter how small.💛

As we prepare to celebrate her 3rd re-birthday and her 4th birthday🎈just weeks away, we’re reminded of her strength, resilience, and the endless joy she brings.

Every moment with her is a victory, and we’re so grateful to share it with you all.🎗️

Keep going, Avi! 

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Childhood Cancer Resources

There is help available!

Whether your child has been diagnosed with cancer, or you’re simply looking for ways to educate yourself and get involved.

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Bone Marrow Transplant


Diagnosis

How did you know something was wrong? Mom noticed a swollen lymph node just under Avery’s right ear. Two days later, she noticed another one. She also noted that Avery wasn’t eating as well as normal. That was the beginning of a long journey.

Helpful Terms

It’s okay, we’re learning together!

We all know that navigating cancer comes with a learning curve. We’ve put together a list of Leukemia vernacular to help as we continue through Avery’s journey.

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